Wednesday 11 April 2012

Let bygones be bygones....

“Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.”
― Dr.Seuss
'Experience'....a very powerful word  for those who understands the meaning of it n apply in their life....my experience is that never give up, no doubt life never goes as we dream or as we want but some experiences boost our confidence n some r those which breaks us totally...we get experienced from 2 ways..one is some situations of our life gives us some experience n other is some people comes in our life n make us to learn some experience ...in both the situation 'experience' word is same but the nature of this word never remain same...bcz the addition of one word before this word  changes the whole situation ....these words r good experiences n bad experiences...
i would like to talk about bad experiences... bcz it is the nature of human beings that we can forget the things which gives us happiness but can never forget  the one which hurts us...we often see that the situations which leads us to bad experiences, we afraid to face or  try to ignore these kind of situations ...and the people who r the reason of our bad experience we start to hate them...but in my case i dont afraid to the situations nor hate the people who make me to learn bad experiences...i dont argue, i dont quarrel rather i like to be calm n quiet and save my energy which could be wasted in useless quarrels n arguments...there r very few people who understands their mistakes n admit it...but a very large number of people who exists in our life never understand their mistakes and some from those r like u even can't tell them that this is ur mistake they can backfires like a hell...better to maintain distance from these kind of people..
another experience of mine makes me to say that ' Yes people get changed' when they become something from nothing...the people who used to be very important in their life loose their value...big big promises changes into bullshits..but yes still i keep myself calm n quiet n say ...'Let theme go' bcz i think u can never show ur value..bcz value is the one which is felt...
  “If we can just let go and trust that things will work out the way they're supposed to, without trying to control the outcome, then we can begin to enjoy the moment more fully. The joy of the freedom it brings becomes more pleasurable than the experience itself.” 



                                                                                                                               Monika karwani 

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